We give them ourselves We give them each other We give them roots We give them wings

We give them ourselves

We became a family because we were in love. But as the children came, it became easier to love them, than to love each other. There is nothing more secure for a child, than for him to have parents who love one another. Till death do us part, for better or for worse. Everyday, we are learning how to love each other again.

We give them each other

They have their good days and they have their bad days. We teach them, that they are each other’s best friends. Unlike the unconditional love they receive from us, they have to earn each other’s respect, and they do. They have learnt to live with each other – have fun, fight, patch up and play together again. We are proud of them.

We give them roots

My child first came to the world, with my blood in his. He may leave us one day, but our genes stay forever in his. He grows up in our world and according to our choices. One day he will choose his own world, and live with his own choices. We give him a past, so he knows, that he is not alone in history. He is part of a narrative from long ago, which has endured till now. He has value. He has great worth.

We give them wings

My child has but one life to live. He wants to be happy, and I want him to live it as a righteous man. Happiness takes hard work, and being righteous even harder work. We give him all that we can, not necessarily everything he needs. For his destiny is beyond us, and he has to find his own ways and his own answers.

Ingrained in each child - in his heart and the depths of his being - is a dream. This dream is that which the child desires to do, for it gives meaning to his life. Walk with us, as we help our children reach their destinies, and discover our own.

22nd May 2015

The 8 things I learnt about teaching a child to read, write and do maths

I have been teaching Samuel to read/spell/write/do maths for more than 5 years. These are some things which I have learnt and found useful – tried and tested! 1. The...

06th Apr 2015

Dawson and Alexandra Heritage Tour

We have never gone on a Heritage Trail as a family, so we were glad for the opportunity to do so with MyCommunity last Saturday, when MyCommunity, together with The Other...

03rd Apr 2015

Avillion, Port Dickson with Daddy and Mummy

During the March school holidays, Edmund and I brought my parents to Avillion, Port Dickson. I have always wanted to bring my mum to Avillion, because I grew up listening to...

29th Jan 2015

Riding the rapids of the teenage years

In our recent Malaysia trip, we went water rafting. (We went with Riverbug, for the Gopeng, Perak tour. It was good!). It was great fun. I felt as if I...

14th Nov 2014

Keep running, holding hands

Samuel was awarded the “Best in Progress” Award at Speech Day today. It’s such an encouragement and a thrill. We were all so proud of him. I like the school...

28th Oct 2014

To simply love

Today I told Samuel that we may never see baby again, as he has found a better home. After hearing that, Samuel burst out crying. He said that when he...

22nd Oct 2014

Friendship with Siri

I read an article today that really touched me. It is about how an autistic boy developed a friendship with Siri, the personal assistant in the Apple device. (Written by...

31st Aug 2014


Tonight I had the honour of attending the “Special Tribute Dinner for Bishan East Pioneer Generation”. I am now so proud of Singapore, not because it is successful economically or...

25th Aug 2014

Good Bye Baby

Tomorrow is the day. I’d pass him to his new foster mother, and he’d sleep in a new bed, in a new home. He’s so familiar with our house now....

20th Jul 2014

What do You think?

This is a difficult time to be a Christian in Singapore. Matthew 5:11 says,”Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against...

27th Jun 2014

Why, got problem ah? Deal with it!

Last Friday Edmund and I were interviewed on 93.8 live. We were invited to share about how we bring up our children. We would never pass off any opportunity to...

17th May 2014

It’s for the moments

There are the moments of recognition. When he is walking in a crowd (having just acquired the ability to walk confidently on his own) and suddenly looks back with searching...