19th Apr 2012

Thank you, mum. I love you mum

Today was as good a day, as yesterday was a bad day. Yesterday was Spelling day for Samuel.  Lots of pain (for both him and me) went into preparing him...

13th Apr 2012

Planting and waiting

Today was an amazing day for three reasons.  Firstly, Samuel and I created our first book.  It is a short story about our trip to the Zoo today.  The story-writing was unplanned but thankfully...

03rd Apr 2012

小步走路 (A step at a time)

We found this cute little book 小步走路 (A step at a time) which Samuel loved.  He loved it because there are three little brother ducklings in the story, and they...

26th Mar 2012

Choosing the better path

Today’s Forum page had two excellently written letters (Spending time with family builds character, Family bonding hit by weekend schoolwork) about the tension between family-bonding-and-character-building time and schoolwork. It reflects...

22nd Mar 2012

Another way I show my love

Tonight we found Elias’ wallet, which I wrote about in my earlier post. When I suggested, two years ago, that he writes “I love my family” in place of “I...

16th Mar 2012

It’s ok, let’s play again!

I believe that every parent with more than one child has a secret wish.  He or she wishes that each of their child will be as smart as the smartest,...

08th Mar 2012

This is our child, as is given to us

Elias was a very cute toddler. He however, often caused us lots of heartaches, not because he misbehaved, but that he often bumped into things and hurt his head. In...

07th Mar 2012

The baby in the child

This is Elkan’s final year as a child, although most people will call him a pre-teen.  This morning as I watched him walk to school, I am reminded of the...

09th Feb 2012

Sharing beauty

I love borrowing Chinese story books.  This is because many of them are award-winning books with beautiful illustrations, touching story lines and excellent in teaching basic virtues.  These books were...

05th Feb 2012

Teachers – you can’t live with them, you can’t live without them

One of the most important and most difficult relationship a parent will ever have with anyone in the child’s life (before the daughter/son-in-laws….) is that with his/her child’s teacher. To...

30th Jan 2012

Loving and being loved

Many years back when I was an undergraduate, a friend said this : “It is better to be loved than to love”.  I pondered over her words through the years, wondering...

29th Jan 2012

小孩子的味儿

Elkan and I are reading this book ‘能闻出小孩子的味儿的乌龟’ (A tortoise that recognises the scent of a child)  Without reading the book, I can already guess what ‘小孩子的味儿’ (The scent of a child)...