25th Jan 2013

The teenager number one

One of the reasons I did not want to have children, is that I was a rebellious teenager.  My mother had a difficult time, and I did not want to...

15th Jan 2013

I am my brother’s keeper

I just read two articles on the Connecticut shooting. One talks about the relationship between video game companies and gun manufacturers, and another blamed the deaths on gun. Both video...

19th Dec 2012

So it was just mummy guilt

Mummy guilt, I am sure every mother has suffered from that. The nagging thought that you could have done more or done better, that you should have known, or that...

22nd Nov 2012

Today is my test

In 3 hours time, we are going to receive Elkan’s PSLE results.  I am very nervous.     Close to 30 years ago, when I received my PSLE results, it...

22nd Oct 2012

They are growing, and so must we

Aa part of his after PSLE activity, I got Elkan to read some of my books.  One book which I thought he might enjoy was Amy Chua’s Battle Hymn of...

03rd Oct 2012

To be born again

As my child approaches his teenage years, I am starting to worry about whether he will continue to believe in all that I have taught him, or whether he will...

30th Sep 2012

PSLE – social leveller

Today I wrote a letter to Chua Mui Hoong, who wrote the excellent article “A place for exams as social leveller” in the Sunday Times. Instead of writing a full...

25th Sep 2012

Just get me the marks!

This is the last lap for Elkan and me, for PSLE 2012. At this stage, it is about one thing, and one thing alone – MARKS. I kind of enjoy...

21st Sep 2012

I will teach you in ways you can understand

Today is the last class which Samuel will be taking at Berries.  真是有点儿不舍得。One of the reasons we stopped is because Samuel does not really like his current class. At first...

18th Sep 2012

Formula for 11 times table

It is strange, but these two days, Elkan has been saying lots of “I’m so smart!” to himself and no one in particular.  I asked him whether he is doing...

17th Sep 2012

Allowing my child to fail

  I managed to catch snippets of the recent Conversations with PM, and the discussions were on having children, education and the future of Singapore.  One thing which Dr Intan Azura Mokhtar said stayed...

30th Jul 2012

Walking in the Garden of Contentment

Recently I am reminded of a new-old lesson – to be thankful for what I have, and not to look at what I do not have. It was part of...

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